Healing the WombTime

An Alternate Birthing/Healing the WombTime Meditation helps you uncover which emotions are truly yours and which stem from your mother. It is essential to learn how to return your mother’s emotions to her—whether she is living or has passed. By identifying where you’ve stored her emotions in your body, you can release them and experience your own feelings free from her influence. You may be surprised to discover just how much of your life has been shaped by your mother’s emotions.

From conception to 18 months, you were like a sponge, absorbing every emotion, thought, and feeling from your mother, which you have likely mistaken as your own. This means that from the moment your life force entered this world, your belief about yourself was shaped by your mother’s emotional state at conception. Whether she was joyful, fearful, or in pain, those emotions became part of your emotional makeup and belief system.

During pregnancy, you continued to experience your mother’s emotions as if they were your own, storing them in your body. This created an emotional framework based on her feelings. As you grew older—around 18 months, when you began to experience your own emotions—these new emotions were layered onto the existing framework shaped by your mother. Over time, these emotions have intertwined and distinguishing them from one another becomes a challenge.

If, after working through inner child healing and other clearing processes, you find recurring emotional patterns, it’s likely that some of these emotions aren’t yours—they were “borrowed” from your mother. Unless you can identify and return these emotions to their rightful owner, they will continue to affect you. This is why, despite your efforts to be different, you might find yourself looking or acting like your mother or repeating her patterns.

In addition to your mother’s influence, you were also shaped by the surrounding environment—the womb experience, the birth process, and the people around you. These early pre-verbal times are foundational in shaping who you are today. Until recently, it was assumed that we weren’t thinking or feeling beings until we could speak, and many therapies still overlook the importance of this critical developmental period.

Core Beliefs and Conscious Reality Creation

We create our reality based on core beliefs formed at deep subconscious levels, often from emotionally charged events. Many of our core beliefs that shape adult life were formed during childhood—some even before birth. Common core beliefs include, “I am unlovable,” “The world is dangerous,” or “Abundance is out of reach.” Most of us aren’t aware of these core beliefs consciously, but they silently direct our experiences.

Self-hypnosis can be a powerful tool for accessing the subconscious mind, where these beliefs reside. In an altered state, we can discover, examine, and transform negative core beliefs into positive ones. Without this conscious work, core beliefs continue shaping our reality, despite efforts like positive affirmations. Uncovering and shifting these beliefs can be both surprising and enlightening, unlocking the ability to consciously create the life we desire.

Why Work with the WombTime?

From conception through nine months of development in the womb, our most fundamental core beliefs are formed. The bond we create with our mother during this time is the strongest, and much of what we believe about ourselves comes from her emotional state. During wombtime, we absorb her worldview, preparing ourselves for survival in the physical world. These experiences lay the foundation for our self-esteem, perceptions of love, and opinions on authority, men, women, and life itself.

The results of identifying and transforming beliefs formed during wombtime are profound. By consciously altering these core beliefs, we can begin to craft the reality we desire intentionally.

A Shift in Understanding

It is only recently, thanks to advances in science, that we have understood that a fetus is a living, thinking, feeling being. In much of the 20th century, it was believed that newborns didn’t have thoughts or emotions until they were one year old. This led parents and professionals to treat fetuses and newborns as if they were senseless bodies. However, because the fetus is thinking and feeling, emotional development starts before birth.

Many psychological therapies have yet to fully integrate this understanding, but through my studies and client work, I’ve found that exploring preverbal development, particularly wombtime, leads to dramatic and rapid life changes.

Post-WWII Sensitivity and Evolution

The souls conceived and born during and after World War II process trauma and emotions differently from previous generations. This increased sensitivity marks an evolutionary step forward, allowing us to examine our emotions and lives more deeply than before. Those born before the war often find it more difficult to examine their past lives, while those born afterward are more naturally attuned to this exploration.

We stand on the shoulders of those who came before, but those born after the war are the ones setting the course for human evolution in the coming millennia. By examining our thoughts, emotions, and willpower, we can become more conscious of our unique individuality and our role in the evolutionary process.

Multidimensionality and Healing

Engaging in an Alternate Birthing experience brings multidimensional aspects of Self into play. Depending on your circumstances, you may encounter unseen friends, counselors, and even past lives participating in the process. The inner child, infant, and fetus can become key players in this healing. Meeting your High Self, Soul, and Spirit for the first time is a profound, life-altering experience. By learning to navigate these inner worlds and dimensions of Self, you begin the journey toward discovering your true essence. And that is the only place where real healing begins.