Healing the Wombtime
During an Alternate Birthing/Healing the Wombtime Session you will discover which of "your" emotions actually belong to mother and you will give them back. You will also discover where, in your body, you have stored her emotions. Once clear of mother's emotions you are free for the first time to fully experience your own feelings without her interference. You will be surprised to find how much your mother has been influencing your life.
From the time of your conception until 18 months of age you were like a sponge, absorbing every one of your mother's emotions, thoughts and feelings -- believing they were yours! That means that from the moment your life force burst on to this planet (at conception) you have carried within your being a belief about yourself. That belief is in alignment with your mother's emotional state at the exact insant of your conception. Whether she was in a state of joy, fear or pain, that emotion is part of your make up and belief system right now!
As your mother carried you through her pregnancy, you experienced her emotions as your own and you stored them in your body, setting up a sort of emotional framework or foundation based on mother's emotions. Later, around the age of 18 months, when you became old enough to be an individual and to experience your own emotions, you continued to store those new emotions in the old framework. As your new emotions were stored in the old framework formed from mother's emotions, they became tangled together and the two remain inseparable today.
If you have done your inner child and other clearing work and still find that those emotions keep repeating, it is quite possible that you need to look for emotions that are not yours, emotions that you "borrowed" from mother. Unless you can own an emotion you can not process and release it--you must give it back to the owner. Often, as we grow older, we find that we have become our mother -- we look like her, or act like her, repeat her neurosis despite every attempt to take a different route. This is because we have not identified and returned those early emotions which belong to mother.
In addition to what our mothers were feeling and thinking we were affected by all of our surroundings -- the womb experience, the birth process, all of the people in our lives. Our early pre-verbal times are actually key to the formation, the foundation of who we are today. Until very recently it was believed that we were not thinking or feeling beings until we began to communicate through speech. Still today most psychological therapies have not considered taking this time of our lives into account!
My work is based on the fundamental principle that we create our own reality. Conscious reality creation is a goal that many are now learning to master. Most of us create reality from the subconscious and unconscious levels and it, therefore, seems separate and out of our control. If we become conscious of why we are creating the reality we are experiencing then we can begin to consciously craft the reality that we desire.
Hypnosis is an excellent tool when used to assist clients to rapidly and easily reach an altered state of consciousness. In an altered state the subconscious mind can be accessed enabling the discovery of core beliefs. Once an existing negative core belief is uncovered it can be transformed into an empowering and life-enhancing belief. Left undiscovered and unchanged, negative core beliefs continue to create negative reality regardless of how many positive affirmations we repeat or how determined we are ti to change. It is enlightening and often surprising to discover our true beliefs, our core beliefs.
Why work with the womb-time? From the moment of conception, and through the nine months of womb-time development, our most fundamental core beliefs are formed and implanted in the subconscious. The connection that we develop with our mothers while in the womb is the most powerful bond that there is; the majority of the core beliefs formed during that time come directly from the mother. During the formative months in the womb we are thinking, feeling beings preparing to move from the world of the spiritual/etheric into the physical world. We learn and adopt mother's belief systems, her ways of processing life, her entire world view as preparation for our initial survival. During the womb-time we form beliefs having to do with our self esteem, sense of being loved and being lovable, our opinions about men, women, authority figures, etc. Dramatic results come from finding and changing the core beliefs created during the womb-time because, by consciously changing core beliefs we begin to consciously create the reality that we desire.
Since this work is so productive, you may wonder why you haven't heard of it before. Science has only recently, with its technological advances, been able to prove that the fetus is a living, thinking being. During most of our 20th century it was believed that babies had no thoughts or feelings until the age of one. Most parents followed the "modern advice" of their doctors and psychologists, treating the fetus and newborn as if it were a senseless, mindless and unconscious body. However, because the fetus is thinking and feeling while in the womb, foundational emotional development begins to take place before birth. Unfortunately, most psychological therapies have not yet considered taking this formative period into account as therapists lag behind science's recent findings. Through my studies and my work with clients, I began to explore the pre-verbal period of development. During these sessions, I found that the exploration of the womb-time was especially productive and resulted in both dramatic and rapid life changes. Because there has been little work done in the area of pre-natal emotional development, I continue to explore and develop my own techniques to assist clients in finding and releasing core beliefs and cellular memory begun in the earliest stages of life. Of interest, over 2,500 years ago, Confucius proclaimed the necessity of education beginning at the prenatal stage and his advice was followed through the 19th century.
A word about multidimensionality. During an Alternate Birthing Session multidimensional levels and multidimensional aspects of Self are brought into play. Depending on the client's particular circumstances, unseen friends, counselors and/or past lives may come forward to participate. The inner child, inner infant and inner fetus are key participants. Higher Self, Soul and Spirit are always involved and meeting them for the first time is a moving and life-altering experience.